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Thursday, September 2, 2010

Promotion!

Josh has been promoted to Captain (O3)! His official promotion was September 1st, but we will have a small ceremony next week to pin on his new bars! I'm so proud of my Marine!

This is what his new insignia looks like:

Monday, August 30, 2010

I can't believe it's almost September!

Life in San Diego continues to be pretty great. It has been fairly hot for the last few weeks, but the last few days have been heavenly! Gray is growing up right in front of us and has recently added a few words to his vocabulary. One of them is "dog" naturally. I guess he really loves his brother. Fletch isn't always so sure about Gray, but at least he plays well (or tolerates it)!
Gray loves Fletch!
 As soon as Gray hears Josh come in the house in the afternoons after work, he goes to the gate with a huge smile and some very excited screams of "DaDa." Once Josh opens the gate, Gray runs as fast as he can in the opposite direction. Gray thinks it's fabulous when we chase him, so he is pretty excited by this game. Josh 'chases' him and then picks him up for hugs. Gray is occasionally sweet hours after Josh arrives, but it is fairly rare. Gray is generally too busy for hugs. 
Gray loves his DaDa!


Gray really loves Toy Story. He had watched the Toy Story and Toy Story 2 movies, then he recognized Buzz and Woody at the 'daycare' in my gym on a poster. He saw them on that poster and froze. He wouldn't stop looking at them for a few minutes, then showed them to me when I picked him up! 
I decided he must love Toy Story enough to take him to the theater to see Toy Story 3. I know many people would think this was a terrible idea, but Gray was so mesmerized by the characters on the big screen he actually never made a peep (except for the occasional laugh) during the whole movie. I was impressed to say the least. He decided that day that Toy Story is his favorite movie, so as his parents we decided it would be cruel to not get him any Toy Story toys. We got him Buzz and Woody action figures, but Josh then decided Gray needed the huge Buzz (we couldn't find Woody). Buzz is almost a big as Gray is, but Gray loves him and plays with him almost every day. This picture was just a few minutes after we got him out of the package about a month ago. Gray thinks Buzz is awesome! 
Gray and Buzz!
Saturdays when Josh doesn't have to fly/study/etc for the squadron are pretty laid back. Josh likes to surf in the morning, but the beach has been cold so Gray and I just stay home. Josh gets home fairly early, so then the family time begins. This particular Saturday, Josh and Gray decided to watch Peter Pan. They actually laid like this for a long time, which is surprising since Gray rarely sits down unless he is forced. It was too cute not to get a shot of them together (with Fletch) in the middle of the living room floor.
Good times with DaDa!
Gray finally tried some Peeps that he got in his Easter basket. I decided it was now or never, since Easter was about 2 months before this picture was taken and marshmallows can only last so long. Gray thought the Peeps were very tasty and he wanted to know why I didn't give them to him 2 months ago. He actually shared this particular Peep with Fletch, so Fletch was happy too. 
Gray's first Peep!
Gray is a pretty cute kid. I'm not just saying that because he is my perfect, sweet, funny, energetic, silly, crazy, wonderful, awesome, handsome first born son. He really is cute! Sometimes he decides to sit down and play with some toys and if I can catch him (which doesn't happen all that often) I try to take a few pictures of him. I really loved this shot, but it happened to be a little blurry. I'm pretty sad about it, but his face is too sweet not to share. 
Just before bedtime.




I saw some advertisements on base about Sesame Street Live. The USO does things for service members and their families periodically on base. They hosted a Sesame Street Live show for several days that was totally free for us! They even gave all the kids these awesome Elmo toys for FREE! Gray didn't really know how to work it that night, but by the next day he had it figured out (you have to push the button AND keep you hands out of the way so it can spin). We watch Sesame Street at least once a week, so he knew the characters and enjoyed the show!
Gray before the show!
Mommy and Gray after the show!
Josh and I celebrated our 3rd anniversary this month! It is wild to think we have been married 3 years already, but it's crazier to think we have moved 4 times (from LA to FL to NC to CA) in those 3 years. Luckily we plan to be here for several years so Gray might actually remember a time when he lived in California once he gets a little older.  We decided to forego traditional gifts and go skydiving instead. We have been talking about it for years and decided the only way it would ever happen was to just do it! I made the appointment and got a sitter for Gray and we were off. I was waiting for my nerves to go into overdrive once we got in the car. Surprisingly I only thought this may have been a bad choice when I saw the first people jump out of the plane. I still wasn't that worried about it, and now that I'm back on the ground I still can't believe I never got scared! Josh and I both thought it was fabulous, but Josh LOVED it and has considered making it a new hobby.  I think I'll stick with sewing, but I wouldn't mind jumping out of a plane again!
Me and Chad (the professional) in free fall toward the Earth!
 The certificate we got before we left said we jumped at 13,000 feet and reached speeds of up to 120 m.p.h. during free fall! 
Just after the jump. Happy Anniversary Josh!
And I know you want to see more of Fletch, so here you go. Fletch chewing on his ball outside while Josh cleans his surfboard, Gray plays in his pool, and I take photographs of it all.
Fletch is such a good doggie. 
This is Josh's dream weekend. Surf in the morning, then spend some time outside in the afternoon with the family. Gray thinks that sounds good too!
My boys love the water. 
Gray loves this pool because it's short enough to get in and out of as often as he choses. He gets in and splashes around. He gets out and walks on Josh's surfboard. He gets back in. He gets back out. You see the pattern?
Gray playing with his scuba toy in the pool. 
Gray has taught himself a new skill. He really enjoys getting a mouthful of milk, juice, or water then spitting it out with a motorboat movement. He thinks is super fun and can spew a large quantity of milk in a short amount of time (notice his shirt) from these tiny lips. He has since done this with enough water to get the front of his shirt, the back of his shirt, his pants, and the seat of the stroller soaking wet. The OCD in me isn't very excited about this new skill. It was only cute/funny once...
Gray 'drinking' milk.
Marine squadrons hold "K-Courts" periodically to chose call signs. For this K-Court, Josh decided to make the theme American Gladiators. Spouses aren't invited, but Gray and I went to the O Club once they were done. Almost everyone went all out costume-wise, so I had to get a group shot. Josh also unexpectedly got a call sign. He is now 1st Lt. Joshua "Booger" Gates. If you are wondering, there is no meaning behind the call sign but when a Major General (2 stars) gives you a call sign, you take it graciously. If you would like to hear the story, give Josh a call. 

On a side note, Josh is in charge of planning and putting this type of thing together for the squadron because of his ground job. I like to tell people he is the party planner, but he is actually in charge of finances, fundraising for the Birthday Ball, planning the Birthday Ball, selling squadron memorabilia, keeping the gedunk (which is two things: 1. An old Navy term for candy, junk food, drinks, etc. 2. The place were snacks can be obtained) stocked with drinks and snacks for the Marines, planning the Hail and Farewell events, ordering cruise books (which are similar to a yearbook for a deployment), etc. I am sure he has other duties, but these are the ones I hear about the most often. 
American Gladiators K-Court
Gates' fam after the K-Court. 
Now for some random shots of Gray...
Gray loves DVD cases. 
Gray is serious about Sesame Street. 
Gray playing with his Bilibo. 


Gray checking out the bunnies in the back yard. 


Gray and the C-130 or 'Herc.' 

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

3Day for the Cure training

Training for the Susan G. Komen 3Day for the Cure continues! Last weekend, our team got together for our official training kick-off! We walked 6 miles near (our team leader) Michelle's house. Since Josh had duty, Gray strolled along with us napping most of the time. Michelle had an awesome brunch ready for us when we got finished walking. We discussed some fundraising ideas to help us all reach our minimum requirement ($2,300) to participate in the walk.

Thirteen amazing friends and family have helped me get over the $800 mark already! I still have about $1,500 to raise, but I'm hopeful that I will exceed my goal long before November! If you are interested in donation, you can click on the link above or contact me for other options. Please don't wait to donate!

In other training news, I'm keeping up the pace of roughly 15 miles a week now but will be increasing to 20+ within in the next few weeks. The 3Day has a training schedule set up with miles/day and cross-training each week, and as the walk gets closer the miles/week increase up to 40+ on several weeks.

I think I'm going to need some new shoes before all of the training is over, but who doesn't love new shoes?

Monday, July 19, 2010

Encinitas Car Show

Josh and I were asked to be guest judges at the Encinitas Rods and Woodies Classic Car Show last week. Naturally, the USMC had other plans and Josh was detained at work. At the last minute, I asked a friend and her 2 kiddos to join Gray and I in Encinitas. 

The traffic was terrible (Who knew?) so my 15-20 minute drive was easily a 30-45 minute commute to get to Encinitas. We were WAY late for the judging, so we were asked to come back next time since all of the awards had been given out! I was sad about going without Josh, but now he can go with me AND pass out some awards! If you are into fun things to do in the area, I recommend going out to this car show in Encinitas! Angela and I thought it was pretty fun and it was free! You can't beat free!

A Woodie with two sweet surf boards on top!

What a cute little VW Bus!  

Friday, July 16, 2010

More visitors!

Some of Josh's family (Mom, little sister, and big brother) came out to San Diego to visit! Josh had to work while they were there, so Gray and I showed them some fun stuff while he was flying and dealing with the day-to-day of his ground job. Naturally, one of our first stops was Miramar. They checked out Josh's squadron and the super cool 53s. 

Maggie, Josh, and Mom

The next day we went to Balboa Park. We went into a couple of museums, including the Museum of Photographic Arts and the San Diego Natural History Museum. 

The Museum of Photographic Arts had a pretty impressive collection of Rock 'N Roll photographs, called Taking Aim until September. There were pictures of everyone from Notorious B.I.G. and Elvis (two of my personal favorites) to the Beetles and Tina Turner.    

The Natural History Museum has a pretty fabulous collection of precious gems and metals (including jewelry, crystals, meteorites, etc) called All That Glitters.  They also have quite a few dinosaur exhibits, which are pretty neat as well. Gray got to watch another 3D movie! This one was about dinosaurs. Gray was fairly impressed. He still didn't want to wear the 3D glasses, but I managed to sneak in one good shot before he could get them off to play with them. 

Gray loves 3D movies, just not the glasses...

The next day, Josh was actually off work! We went to the beach where Adam and Maggie took their first surfing lessons. They did pretty well, and now they can tell everyone they shredded waves in California! The water was still pretty cold and the sun was in hiding, so I chose (wisely, if I say so myself) to stay out of the water. Josh wanted to give it one more try at the beach, so we went back out the next day. The sun was still bashful, but the water was warmer. We spent a little time on the beach and called it quits after Maggie and Adam took their second surfing lesson.  

Adam, Maggie, and Josh after riding giants. 

Gray decided he doesn't need surfing lessons. He is already an advanced surfer. The only thing holding him back is his inability to swim (or to hold his breath, but why split hairs).

Gray's surfing technique. No swimming required. 

I can't believe this is my baby. All grown up (at 15 months old).

Either way, we enjoyed our most recent visitors and were sad to see them go! I hope they loved San Diego, even if we experienced record lows and very little sun while they were here. 

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

Susan G. Komen 3Day for the Cure



This year, I'll be participating in a very special event called the Susan G. Komen 3-Day for the Cure. I'll walk 60 miles over the course of three days with thousands of other women and men, and camp out each night under the stars in San Diego. Proceeds from the Susan G. Komen 3-Day for the Cure are invested in breast cancer research.

The women I'll be walking with are also wives of Marine or Air Force pilots and we plan to train and fundraise together. I think this will be a very exciting opportunity for each of us! Each team member is walking in memory/honor of family members and friends who have been touched by breast cancer. I personally am walking for two amazing women, two of my mom's sisters. I'm walking in honor of my Aunt Kitty, who is a breast cancer survivor. I'm also walking in memory of my Aunt Doris, who lost her battle to cancer last November.

Together, my team plans on raising at least $11,500 to help end breast cancer forever. Personally, I am going to raise $2,300 of that, so I need your help. Please consider making a donation for this great cause. Even if you can only spare $5, it would still put me one step closer to my goal.

There are several ways to donate. You can call 800-996-3DAY to donate over the phone. If you prefer to write a check, please make the check out to “ Susan G. Komen 3-Day for the Cure” and mail it to my home address.

You can also give online at The3Day.org. Just follow the link below to visit my personal fundraising Web page. If you donate online, you can even spread your donation out over four monthly payments!


This link will take you to the 3Day website:


Thank you in advance for your support!




Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Missing Silas

A little over two weeks ago Silas went missing. He went outside to handle his business, and we haven't heard from him since. I have gone to local vet's offices, checked with animal control, and local shelters. No one has seen him. If someone picked him up, they are planning to keep him. Josh and I believe something more sinister may have happened to our sweet first born child with all the wild animals that live in the area. 

I miss him so much, and I don't want to admit it but I don't think we will see him again. It's crazy to think about all the things Silas has been through with us. Josh bought him for me as a birthday gift a few months into our relationship. He has virtually been around from the beginning of our relationship, so he has celebrated Christmases and birthdays and countless other holidays with us. He was around when Josh got Fletch. He was there (well, at home) when we got married. He was with us when we moved to Florida, North Carolina, and most recently California. He was with us when Gray was born and at his first birthday party. 

He was a bitter little Chihuahua, but he was my bitter Chihuahua. He had some of the coolest tricks around. He had terrible breath and a bad attitude, but we loved him just the same. He has been a part of our lives for seven years and it is incredibly sad that he is missing. I still have hope that he will come home, but my optimism is faltering. Please continue to pray that he comes home safely. 

I thought it would be nice to post some pictures of Silas over the years... He was such a cute Chihuahua, and I'm not just saying that because he was my doggy! 

About 2 months old. 


Silas' 1st Christmas.

Me and Silas. 

Silas and Fletch. 
Fletch's 1st Christmas.

Studying for Comprehensive Exams. 

Driving my car.

Playing bury the Chihuahua in Pensacola, FL.

Beach baby.

Our family minus Fletch.

Fletch and Silas in Pensacola.

Silas (Halloween '07)

Gray (3 months old), Silas, and Fletch in Pensacola.

Silas at Surf City, NC

Silas at the Grand Canyon